Headero and SX Noir invite you to the NoSex|SexParty - a space for sexual exploration, without the pressure of s*x.

Imagine a time in a not-so-distant future, where consenting s*x is stigma free. When you are welcome to explore, to own your boundaries and to push beyond your limitations.

Imagine a place where you can learn and grow, to electrify and uplift yourself. In this space bodily autonomy is sacrosanct - it is deeply ingrained in the core of us.

This is where you say "yes" to new horizons because you feel safe leaving the harbor.

That future is now at the NoSex|SexParty.

What to Expect:

The moment you walk through the door you’ll be greeted by our fabulous hosts and safety staff who will be your guide and your support for this journey of s#xual exploration.

Next, perhaps you’ll grab a cocktail or mocktail while you listen to the pulse beats of the DJ setting your vibe for the evening. This is where you will allow your senses to fully take over. You catch a glimpse of someone being flogged on the Saint Andrew’s cross.

When you turn your head you realize you might have developed a kink for watching p*rn in public. You make eye contact with someone across the room and nod. Because you know that tonight has already changed you for the better.

The Program:

Produced by SX Noir. With ambient entertainment and s*xy performances including:

• 🕯️😈🕯️wax play
• ✨⚡✨ future fetish
• 👠😏👠 gogo and burlesque
• 🫦🪬🫦 erotic tarot and poetry
• 🪢🫠🪢 shibari

Presented by Headero , the s*x positive app for oral pleasure.

Stay tuned for announcements on our hosts, DJ and lineup!

Who is Welcome:

If you’re new to kink this is for you. If you’re in the lifestyle this is for you. If you’re curious this is for you. If you’re LGBTQIA+ this is for you. If you’re BIPOC this is for you.

How to Show Up:

This is an event where you have permission to explore your boundaries within a safe and consensual kink space without the pressure to perform because s*x is off the table.

Come to this space with the intention of exploring your s*xual self, and supporting others as they do the same. Show care for this community by respecting our five principles.

Dress Code: Future fetish, kaleidoscope kink, peek-a-boo lingerie, funky formal, cyberpunk, your future self. No casual wear, please.

What people are saying:

“The vibe is right. S*xy and welcoming.” — Austin NoSex|SexPartier

“It's definitely a vibe, with sexual liberation as the guiding principle of the inclusive fete.” TimeOut NY

“I was very… enchanted? I’ll need to think of the right words! I tried wax play and being flogged, it felt somewhat surprisingly nice! (I could go on and on)” — Brooklyn NoSex|SexPartier

“A gateway experience: Once you know the ins-and-outs of someone’s most intimate fantasies, the conversation can go anywhere” — Culture Map Austin

“I came, I saw, I didn’t c*m. 10/10” — Austin NoSex|SexPartier

At SXSW we had over 700 RSVPs and hit capacity within the first 30 minutes. Our last events in Brooklyn and Manhattan SOLD OUT.

The NoSex|SexParty is presented by Headero, the app for oral pleasure.

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